Caroline Hardaker’s second novel, like the first, presents a
challenging read. It asks the reader to keep critical faculties, human
sympathy, and a healthy degree of scientific skepticism onboard as the story
unfolds. It’s been described as a cross between horror and mainstream, but I
don’t think it’s horror in the usual sense, any more than Metamorphosis
by Franz Kafka is. It might better be described as a psychological mystery.
Whether the fantasy/science-fictional/surreal elements truly exist in
Hardaker’s world or whether they are creations in the mind of the main
character is, ultimately, a judgment call for the reader to make.
The story alternates between “After,” in which the adult
protagonist races desperately through a sinister wilderness, and “Before,”
looking back to his childhood. The “Before” section opens on an apparently
dystopic world in which people go missing and floral tributes appear on
all-too-many doorsteps and street corners. This is the first part of the
mystery: What is going on? Are people really vanishing? If so, where are
they going? If not, where are their bodies?
Although his parents try hard to protect him and his sister,
ten-year-old David believes something more is going on. When his beloved
grandfather--a Professor of Superstring Theory and Dark Matter Studies--disappears
and his parents insist the old man is dead, David refuses to believe them. He
becomes convinced that his grandfather has found a door into another world,
a place he truly belongs. And David is determined to find such a world for
himself.
David faces many difficulties in the ordinary world. He’s
barely verbal, doesn’t pick up on social cues or interact with others, and
seems oblivious to the feelings of others. His mother’s increasingly anxious
about the “disappearances,” and despite this, David takes off on his own to
visit the cemetery where his grandfather is buried. As a mother myself, I was
furious at his lack of sensitivity. Fortunately, Hardaker’s skill kept me reading
long enough to ask the question, “What is going on with this kid?”
David is more than an unreliable narrator, although he is
that, too, and herein lies the second part of the mystery. What, indeed, is going
on with him? Can we trust anything he says about himself, the world, other
characters, his grandfather—anything?
Can we read between and behind the lines to discover the
real story?
This article first appeared in The Conversationand is republished here in a slightly condensed form under a Creative Commons license. It's so important, it deserves to be widely read.
Previous CDC research has shown that the COVID-19 pandemicdisproportionately affected girls. And in a 2021 study that our team conducted with 240 teens, 70% of girls said that they “very much”missed seeing peopleduring the pandemic, compared with only 28% of boys reporting that sentiment.
Finally, we think that all young people are struggling with issues like climate change and social upheaval. Here are six strategies that research shows can work.
1. More emphasis on social support
Social and emotional connectivity between humans is likely one of the most potent weapons we have against significant stress and sadness. Studies have found strong links between a lack of parental and peer support and depression during adolescence. Support from friends can also help mitigate the link between extreme adolescent anxiety and suicidal thoughts. In one study of teens, social support was linked to greater resilience – such as being better able to withstand certain types of social cruelty like bullying.
2. Supporting one another instead of competing
Research has found that social media encourages competition between girls, particularly around their physical appearance. Teaching girls at young ages to be cheerleaders for one another – and modeling that behavior as grownups – can help ease the sense of competition that today’s teens are facing.
3. Showcasing achievements
Thinking about your own appearance is natural and understandable. But an overemphasis on what you look like is clearly not healthy, and it is strongly associated with depression and anxiety, especially in women.
Adults can play a key role in encouraging girls to value other qualities, such as their artistic abilities or intelligence. Childhood can be a canvas for children to discover where their talents lie, which can be a source of great satisfaction in life.
One way that adults can help is simply by acknowledging and celebrating those qualities. For instance, at the Massachusetts Aggression Reduction Center, an organization we direct and manage that is focused on prevention of bullying and cyberbullying, staff members post female achievements – be they intellectual, artistic, scientific, athletic or literary – on social media channels every Friday, using the hashtag #FridaysForFemales.
4. Empowering women
Girls look to grown women for examples of how they can behave and what they can do. You may not be the chief executive officer of a huge corporation, but maybe you are a wonderful teacher, or maybe you run a small business that provides an important product or service. Modeling pro-women attitudes means valuing all of the roles that people play in a society.
Social media represents a unique form of human interaction that has taken on an outsize role in the lives of teens. This is magnified for teenage girls, for whom every social media interaction may feelconsequential and potentially cataclysmic.
Interacting in a fun and positive way with peers on social media platforms can be a positive and affirming experience. On the other hand, seeing the things that others post, and comparing it with your own stuff, can make people of any age feel anxious about how they’re appearing, and whether they’re being socially included or excluded. This anxiety applies to both boys and girls, but the potential for emotional distress seems to be higher for girls.
Awareness of how social media has the capacity to influence your feelings and mental health seems to help people keep some distance from their interactions on social media. Adults can help girls by discussing with them how social media influences their feelings, their self-perception and even their body image.
6. Teaching kids to recognize their feelings
Learning to recognize and label feelings doesn’t come automatically for many people. The good news, though, is that kids can learn ways to help themselves when they’re experiencing anxiety or depression. Kids can learn to appreciate how hugging their dog, playing a board game, or talking with their parent(s) can help reduce anxiety, once they understand the feelings.
We think it’s worth noting that everything discussed here can also be helpful for boys, who are by no means immune to mental health problems. Encouraging achievement recognition, understanding how moods can be influenced by social media, and increasing support for both boys and girls is a positive step as we move toward a post-pandemic world.
How to Become a Planet, by Nicole Melleby (Algonquin Young
Readers)
Fourteen year old
Pluto is an engaging youngster, as passionate about astronomy as she is puzzled
by the changes in her life and herself. Within a short period of time, she’d
gone from a happy science geek who hangs out with her best friend on the
boardwalk where her divorced mother runs the family pizzeria, to a stranger in
her own skin. Sometimes she’s paralyzed with the blues, unable to even get out
of bed, and the next she’s caught up in senseless fury. It’s as if the mood
swings of normally hormonal adolescence have been amped up to pathological
proportions. Even with a supportive mother, a psychiatric diagnosis complete
with medications and a recommendation for psychotherapy, and a novel way of
using astronomical concepts as metaphors for what she’s going through, Pluto is
drowning. Not only is she progressively alienating everyone she cares about, she’s stopped caring. Only when her rich city father ramps up the pressure
for her to live with him does she formulate a desperate plan: a list of all the
things she must do in order to stay at home.
Take medication.
Visit the planetarium with Mom.
Go to Former Best Friend’s Birthday party… and so on.
The list, Pluto
believes, will prove that she can return to her old, “true,” “normal” self. But
things don’t go as planned. As Pluto embarks upon her tasks, they become even
less within her reach. The summer takes one unexpected turn after another.The tutor whom Pluto was sure she’d hated
turns out to be a sympathetic ally, and a new friend with a checklist of their
own has a secret Pluto can sympathize with.
Society tends to
“other” people with mental illnesses. Historically, they were seen as possessed
by devils or cursed by angry gods, as witches, or as eccentric, lazy, or
selfish. Treatments ranged from trephination (drilling holes in the patient’s
skull), to exorcism to locking the mentally ill in horrific prison-like
asylums. Even today, when effective treatments allow many, even those with
serious diagnoses, to lead functional lives, the stigma persists. All too
often, the person is seen only as their illness, and their insights and
contributions therefore dismissed as invalid. Young people are particularly
vulnerable to public shaming. It’s hard enough for even “normal” teens to
figure out who they are and what they want in life. How to Become a Planet focuses on Pluto as a sympathetic character,
a person who is both resourceful and overwhelmed, insightful and confused by
changes in herself. Her use of astronomy metaphors is particularly vivid and
powerful. Above all, Pluto is a person whose brain chemistry isn’t working
quite right, not a diagnosis, and this excellent novel showcases her journey
toward a new balance in her life.
As for my personal
reaction, I must confess that, although I am an older adult, I gobbled up this
book. Pluto’s voice was so compelling, and her struggles so resonant, that the
story connected with me on a deep level. Although I did not suffer depression
as a teen, I struggled with PTSD as an adult. The times Pluto absolutely cannot
motivate herself to engage with her day were chillingly familiar. And, just as
Pluto took small steps toward understanding her “new normal,” that’s how it
went with me. Besides skillful therapy and appropriate psychiatric medicines,
unexpected acts of kindness and new friendships as well as old carried me
through the dark times. Pluto comes to accept that she is now and will forever
be different from who she was before. I can never go back to the person I was
before my own trauma. But I can heal and grow and live a fulfilling life. I
wish the same for Pluto. She’s made an excellent start.