Barb Caffrey: The main reason I restarted my writing despite a number of life challenges (including
It allows you to do something positive. Something meaningful. Something that you can point to later, and ask yourself, "I did that?"
Granted, at the time, I didn't realize at all this was why I was trying so hard to write. I looked at it as an expression of creativity (which, of course, it is); I also saw it as my way to strike back against the darkness of entropy, and of course as a way to continue on with what my husband (also a writer) and I had done all our lives.
In short, writing allowed me to feel more like myself, rather than the person I had unwittingly become after my husband died so suddenly. I didn't like feeling like an open wound all the time; I wanted to heal.
Writing helped me heal.
Barb Caffrey has written three novels, An Elfy On The Loose (2014), A Little Elfy in Big Trouble (2015), and Changing Faces (forthcoming), and is the co-writer of the Adventures of Joey Maverick series (with late husband Michael B. Caffrey) Previous stories and poems have appeared in Stars Of Darkover, First Contact Café, How Beer Saved The World, Bearing North, And Bedlam's Edge (with Michael B. Caffrey).
From Wendy, for whom this blog series was created:
Dreams are possible....
If you take action....
If you reach out with an earnest, heartfelt plea....
Good people will respond.
I do not take this creative journey alone. What a comfort this realization has been to me. I am encouraged and deeply grateful for the wonderful words of wisdom you have all shared with me.
I am writing again. Perhaps in fits and starts, but still putting words to electronic paper on a daily basis.
I am starting to believe in myself again, to see myself as a creative spirit with something to say.
My words matter. My words can entertain and enlighten. I have a voice. All of you have helped me find that voice again.